• Thank the blogger who nominated you and provide a link to their blog
• Mention the creator of the award The creator of this award is..Okoto Enigma
• Answer the five questions you were asked
• Tell the readers three things about yourself
• Nominate ten to twenty bloggers
• Notify the bloggers that you nominated them by commenting on one of their posts
• Ask your nominees five questions with one weird or funny one
• Share a link to your best posts
I would like to Thank ERA, THE HIDDEN SOUL. She is amazing person. The content she post are Tremendous 🥀.please you all visit and follow her❤…..LOTS LOVE TO ERA💫🙂
Fivebfacts about myself:
I love cats a lot😻
I live in India🇮🇳
I’m a student pursuing B. Tech 1st year in BANGALORE 👩🎓
Goal of life is to attempt UPSC exams👮♀ and In sha Allah next it goes as per God wish (Allah)
My inspiration and role model is S. A. W for everything❤🥀
Her Questions :
1. What is your hobby other than writing?
Ans: My hobby other than writing is Sketching and photography📸
2. Black coffee or Cappuccino?
3. Your one habit that you yourself find annoying?
Ans: Anyways this is a tough question 😅……I have a habit to write something or the other thing in last page of my every notes!… I do write rubbish useless things and when I’m bored I sketch the cartoons to a funny picture 😂
4. Your most favorite post of mine and why?
Ans: Haha so clever you are 😅…sorry to say still I didn’t go to other post of yours… When I read it In sha Allah I’ll let you know in your comment section❤🙂🥀
5. Oswald or Bob, the builder? And why
Ans: Ooh man, can’t choose among them.. Both are my favorite… I used to watch them a lot when I was kid… Instead still I do watch Oswald❤🥀😅…my most favorite cartoons they are!💫❤
I want to NOMINATE ALL….. Hope you all will participate… As always I won’t be offended if you don’t follow the tag💫
MY QUESTIONS :
What’s the most embarrassing moment you faced in your life till now?
What’s your opinion to transgenders (GAY)?
What you are and why you are? ( Can answer them in fun way too😂)
What is that one thing you never want to do in your life?
For girls: Boy with long hairs, beard, tall and handsome OR Boy with short hair and cute? For Boys: Girls with long hairs, tall, beautiful and blue eyes OR Girls with short hair, not so tall and wearing spectacles! Whom will you like❤😅
Thank you Era once again….And thank you to you all who are reading it❤💫🥀
Hi everyone, I would just like to say thank you for supporting this week. I hope you’ve had a lovely week and enjoyed this wonderful sunshine. Thank you for the emails too, hopefully you have received replies too
So exciting – a new award! Thanks to Jess for nominating me 🙂
RULES: Thank the person who have nominated you and provide a link back to their blog. Answer their questions. Nominate up to 9 other bloggers and ask them 5 new questions. List the rules and display the “Ideal Inspiration Blogger Award” logo. Provide the link of the Award creator of ideal inspiration blogger award as Rising Star from. https://idealinspiration.blog .
Questions from JESS
1.What inspired you to start blogging?
Ans: Normally no one inspired me to start blogging as we say when ever mind is free from works and just sitting in one place many things gets popped in mind and try to fetch new things to discover. Same way as we all know we are in Quarantine (INDIANS) so thought to start something like this!
2. Who’s your favorite content creator at the moment?
3. List 5 things you’d take with you if you were stuck on a desert tropical island?
Ans: An endless supply of drinking water because it is essential for survival.
A magnifying glass or a mirror to start a fire, feel warm and be able to cook.
A first aid kit in case of injury!
4. What’s one thing you’ll do differently in the future because of lock down?
Ans: In this lock down time I am able to explore myself a lot and got to know my many hidden talents and writing blogs is one of them and secondly writing poems was just my hobby and when lock down ends I’ll try to participate many of the poem writting competitions and try to explore a lot…. If you people have any idea for participation of online poem writting…. Please let me know in my comment section! ❤
5. What’s your favorite film?
Ans: Black..A Hindi movie (Actor: Amitabh Bacchan)
Blanche Monnier was a gorgeous girl from France who ended up having one of the most tragic lives. She was born on the 1st of March, 1849 in Poitiers, France in what was thought to be a wonderful family at the time. Her beauty, physical appearance, and good nature attracted a lot of attention, and most importantly many potential suitors for marriage. Her parents were aristocrats and very reluctant when it came to their beautiful daughter getting married. At the peak of her teenage years, she was attracting many suitors from the high-society as she was receiving many letters. This reached a point where it made Louise Monnier (her mother) very angry as she was with the idea of her daughter being too precious for marriage. Since that day Blanche just vanished from Paris, or did she?
ISOLATED FROM EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE Louise Monnier had locked her daughter in her room for good, boarding the windows so that no sunlight, and most importantly no one can see her. This left Blanche isolated from the whole world apart from her parents, brother, and servants around the house. She was not allowed to get off the bed in her room nor was she allowed any sort of basic hygiene. For half of her life, Blanche laid in bed where she ate, urinated, and defecated.
Blanche’s parents told her friends and relatives that she was sent to some sort of Boarding school in the United Kingdon and due to her schedule she was not able to come back home very soon. At the point where she was supposed to finish her study, the lies advanced to Blanche making a life of her own in Scotland, which separated her from any relatives in France.
The Horrific Discovery
After 25 years, on the 23rd of March, 1901, the attorney general from Paris received an anonymous letter stating that a well know family from Paris is hiding something behind closed doors. Even to this day, the author of the letter is still unknown, however, historians do believe it was one of the servants.
Monsieur Attorney General: I have the honor to inform you of an exceptionally serious occurrence. I speak of a spinster who is locked up in Madame Monnier’s house, half-starved and living on a putrid litter for the past twenty-five years — in a word, in her own filth.
The Monnier family was seen as highly regarded in the Parisian community which made the authorities reluctant about the claims made in the letter, but never the less, the authorities went to investigate the Monnier estate. At first glance, the property looked “clean”, until the investigators noticed a rotting smell coming from one of the rooms.
Upon reaching the room from which the rotting smell was coming from, the investigators noticed that the room has been locked for years as the padlock seemed rusty. The authorities smashed the padlocked and barged into a room full of horror. The authorities had written a grim report based on their findings, here is a paragraph from those reports, summarising their findings:
The women looked extremely malnourished whilst lying completely naked on a rotten mattress. All around her formed a crust made from excrement and fragments of food… We also saw bugs running across Mademoiselle Monnier’s bed. The air inside the room was so unbearable, it was impossible for us to proceed with our investigation any longer.
The room was so dark the investigators broke the barricades from the window, that was the first time that Blanche has seen the sunlight after 25 years. She told the investigators that she was chained for 25 long years and offered the bare minimum to survive. Her health condition was so bad that she weighed only 25 kilograms and she did not have the power to stand up on her own feet.
Once she was transported to the hospital she mentioned how wonderful it is to smell the fresh mesmerizing air. The doctors have mentioned how incredible it is that she managed to survive in such an atrocious condition with no movement for so many years.
A big case took part where all of the Monnier family was interrogated. Louise Monnier was arrested but had died 15 days after her imprisonment from what the authorities think was a heart condition, but many assume she drugged herself. Marcel Monnier, Blanche’s brother tried to defend himself by saying his mother was in charge of this crime. Despite the evidence that was provided, Marcel was sentenced to 15 years by playing a role in Blanche’s mistreatment and imprisonment.
Even if now Blanche was free, life wasn’t easy for her. Because of the 25 years imprisonment, Blanche developed major mental issues and health problems such as coprophilia, exhibitionism, and schizophrenia. Due to all these problems, she was commissioned to a psychiatric hospital where she died in 1913.
I decided to open my blog this week and dedicate it to all the Mother’s.
A mother is not necessary someone who birth a child.
We have many women who take on the responsibility of a child that they didn’t birth and love, raise them as they birth them.
Happy Mother’s Day
If you ask around everyone would say that their mom is the best or maybe not. But I have to say that if it was not for my mother I would not be who I am today.
My mother showed me to love unconditionally. She was quiet but a women of prayer who never gives up.
Mothers have done so much for us. Their sacrifices, love, affection, etc is unmeasurable. They train us up with the right values and qualities to help and assist our journey of life. They should be celebrated. CALL, TEXT, VISIT all Mother’s you can today. Let them know that the world appreciates them today. Let them know that they are loved!!!! Shoutout to all mothers Drop your best wishes for mothers in down of comment section! 👇👩👧
I hear news about you every night & honestly, you make my me go tremble with fright. You were made in China perhaps that gave you the birth-right To export yourself across the globe in broad daylight.
The scenes at hospitals are a dreadful sight Where against you doctors fight with all their might. Corona, you don’t care about your preys’ plight & because of you, many had to cancel there’s flight.
About you, news reporters continue to hysterically scream They increase your fear to an unimaginable extreme. Now as the moonlight begins to beam In my mind’s inward eye, I weave a dream.
Though we wash our hands every day Because of you, we may have gone astray. Things may seem immensely depressing & grey But together, through this narrow passage, we’ll find a way.
As a monster people have empearled you inside their heads & uniting together, our social differences we’ve shed. We are at war, quarantined in our homes, laying in our beds Soon you’ll crumble bleeding, broken & dead.
So dressed in my room I wrote this playful song For the night is darkest just before the dawn. A rainbow shall shine & impale your dreary storm Because I’ve heard Chinese products don’t last for too long.
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Grey skin, red eyes eyes that see all all color drained drained from your soul
when you hurt her her of black skin skin shining warm warm morning sun
her smile died then then she knew why why you killed it it gave her will
you’ll never know know your dear son son of beauty beauty despite
he’ll never know know his father father rapist rapist monster
gone away now now worlds away away from black black is her color
she watches him him bright morning morning he plays plays, says, “Momma!”
the sun is warm warm on their skin skin raises up up in their smiles
Loop poetry: There is no restrictions on the number of stanzas nor on the Syllable count for each line. In each stanza, the last word of first line becomes the first word to line 2, last word of line 2 becomes the first word to line 3,and last word of line 3 becomes the first word to line 4. This is followed to each stanza.
I’m promoting you to think of what comes to your mind when you picture BLACK🖤. Think of what it means to you and or what it’s stand for. My loop stopped to SMILES… Hope you continue it following loop poetry down in my comment box!
Nostradamus was a french prophecy teller who lived in 1500 C.E. He made many prophecies. Prophecy is nothing but to forsee events which will happen in future. He was mostly famous for his book LES PROPHETIES. In the book he made many revelations about future events. Most important and notable prophecies were on great fire of London, 9/11 WTO attacks, Hilter and Nepolean Bonaparte..
Predictions 1: Sept. 11, 2001
Earthshaking fire from the center of the Earth Will cause tremors around the New City. Two great rocks will war for a long time, Then Arethusa will redden a new river.
Well, two great rocks could be two towers, right? But would you say those towers were warring? If you read this verse before Sept. 11, you might assume it referred to an earthquake or volcanic eruption. Earthshaking fire, tremors, rocks warring (in other words, continental plates colliding), but who really knows. Back when Nostradamus wrote those lines, skyscrapers like the Twin Towers, jumbo jets like the ones that hit them and cities like modern-day New York were probably unthinkable and unimaginable, so if he foresaw these events, would he have even known what he was seeing?
Prediction 2: World War II/Hitler
The two greatest ones of Asia and of Africa, From the Rhine and Lower Danube they will be said to have come, Cries, tears at Malta and the Ligurian side. Also … From the depths of the West of Europe, A young child will be born of poor people, He who by his tongue will seduce a great troop; His fame will increase towards the realm of the East.
These two verses may in fact describe World War II and Hitler … or not. Was the most notable bit about Hitler his impoverished upbringing? What about the genocidal, megalomaniacal tendencies? Don’t those deserve something? Much of the talk of Nostradamus’ prophecy of Hitler may come from his use, in the original text, of the Latin word “Hister” to describe the Danube. Trust me, he was talking about a river, not a dictator: no self-respecting prophet would make such an egregious spelling error.
Predictions 3: Atomic bomb
Near the gates and within two cities There will be scourges the like of which was never seen, Famine within plague, people put out by steel, Crying to the great immortal God for relief.
OK, this one is hard to dispute. Let’s face it. It’s an accurate description of the atomic bombings of Hiroshima and Nagasaki. “Scourges the like of which was never seen,” people “crying to the great immortal God.” With that said, this verse is accurate because it cheats a bit on the specifics. Critics charge that it’s so vague that it could also be used to describe a whole host of wartime during any of many wars that took place between Nostradamus’ time in the 16th century and today … or even the future.
Predictions 4: Louis Pasteur
The lost thing is discovered, hidden for many centuries. Pasteur will be celebrated almost as a God-like figure. This is when the moon completes her great cycle, But by other rumors he shall be dishonored.
Like many surnames, Louis Pasteur’s probably once indicated a profession. Pasteur, in French, could also mean pastor, so some argue that this bit of Nostradamian prose could just be about any old priest. Others call it a shout-out to the man who studied microbial decay, brought you spoilage-resistant milk and found a vaccine for rabies. No one doubts he deserved the props. You be the judge.
Predictions 5: JFK & RFK Assassinations
The great man will be struck down in the day by a thunderbolt, An evil deed foretold by the bearer of a petition. According to the prediction, another falls at night time. Conflict at Reims, London and a pestilence in Tuscany.
Thunderbolts and gunshots: not terribly dissimilar. And the great man was struck down in the day, as John F. Kennedy was. The other falling at nighttime would be Bobby Kennedy (five years later). Now, it can work if you want it to, but do you really think a Secret Service agent reading that passage in November 1963 would have cause to be concerned? Probably not.
Predictions 6: London Fire
The blood of the just will commit a fault at London, Burnt through lighting of twenty threes the six: The ancient lady will fall from her high place, Several of the same sect will be killed.
Look, just because you’ve never heard of the Great London Fire of 1666 doesn’t mean it wasn’t a really big deal. It pretty much obliterated all of medieval London (“the ancient lady”) within the old Roman walls. Only six deaths were recorded (hence “the six” in the second line), though commoners’ deaths may not have been recorded at the time. The fire, which started in a baker’s shop, burned for three days straight. If only someone had passed along a copy of Nostadamus’ book, maybe Londoners might have known it was coming.
“END OF THE WORLD”
Remember when the world was going to end in 1994? What about 1998? Or 2000? The doomsayers always warn that Nostradamus said the world was going to end and he NEVER GOT ANYTHING WRONG. Specifically, it’s April. 16, 2020. Believe it if you want. One thing is clear: Nostradamus himself wrote that his prophecies only went as far forward as the year 3797. Does that mean the world will end late in the 38th century? Only time will tell. What you think about it….let me know in comment section.
It seems that once in 100 years the world is devastated by a pandemic.
The last recent pandemics are the following: In the year 1720 plague, in the year 1820 cholera outbreak and the most recent pandemic was the Spanish flu of 1920.
The researchers said that all of these pandemics mentioned above have exactly the same pattern as the coronavirus outbreak in China.However, the precision with which these pandemics occur at exactly 100 years of age makes us think better about this topic.
What happened in 1720?
The great plaugue in Marselli was the last of the significant European outbreaks of bubonic plaugue. Arriving in Marselli, France in 1720, the dieaes killed a total of 100,000 people; 50,000 in the city during the next two years and another 50,000 to the north in surrounding provinces and towns.
What happened in 1820?
The first cholera pandemic : By 1820, cholera had spread to Thailand ,Indonesia and the Philippines .On the island of Java alone, the outbreak caused the death of 100,000 people. Nightingale was put in charge of nursing British and allied soldiers in turkey during the “Crimean war”. She spent many hours in the wards and her night rounds giving personal care to the wounded establish her pic as a “Lady with the lamp”.
What happened in 1920?
The Spanish flu Pandemic of 1918, the deadliest in history, infected an estimated 500 million people worldwide- about 1/3rd of the planets population – and killed an estimated 20 million to 50 million victims, including some 675,000 Americans. The 1918 flu was first observed in Europe, The United State and parts of Asia before Swiftly spreading around the world. At the time, there were no effective drugs or vaccines to treat this killer flu strain.
Does the plauge exist still?
Yes, the plague exists, and it’s not the only old-time disease still lurking. While the plague is extremely rare today, many express shock that cases still pop up at all. … According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, there are an average of seven cases of plague each year.
How did it end? The most popular theory of how the plaugeended is through the implementations of quarantine.The uninfected would typically remain in their homes and only leave when it was necessary, while those who could afford to do so would leave the more densely populated areas and live in greater isolation.
What’s happening in 2020?
Coronavirus disease 2019 (COVID-19) is an infectious disease caused by severa respiratory syndrome coronavirus 2.The disease was first identified in December 2019 in Wuhan, the capital of China’s Hubie province, and has since spread globally, resulting in the ongoing 2019-20 coronavirus pandemic.
How many deaths from 1720 – 2020 because of plaugue?
In year 1720- 100,000 people cause Bubonic plaugue
In year 1820- 121,000 to 143,000 people per year Cholera.
In year 1920- 50,000,000 people “Spanish flu “.
In year 2020- 350,000 death of people worldwide as of April 2020.
COVID-19 is forcing entire countries into lock down, killing thousands of people and devastating the global economy. The virus is so easily transmitted it is possible that approximately 60% of all people in the world could become infected without radical containment measures.There is no easy answer but I would like to offer some thoughts based on the Situation going.
First is the concept of “social distancing”. While it is imperative that we break the chain of transmission by keeping physical distance from each other, never have we all needed connection so much.
Second, the commitment to innovation for COVID-19 diagnostics, vaccines and therapeutics is humbling and a true global effort. But we absolutely must keep it like that: innovation from every corner of the world, for the whole world. Infectious diseases leave no room for partisan agendas, and these essential innovations must be accessible to all as global goods or we will not be victorious.
Third, this unparalleled global effort to tackle an infectious disease must leave a positive and lasting legacy. Not just of successfully overcoming COVID-19, but of stronger health systems that are able to provide health for all. This should be a legacy of true political commitment to real investment in epidemic preparedness that can improve outcomes for people with any disease.
The ghosts projected in movies and stories are very interesting compared to the way they actually appear in real life. I’m going to tell you some facts about ghosts that I’ll not only help you understand the spirit/ghosts real but also help you identify potential ghost presence.
1. Have you noticed that certain things in your home get lost and no matter how hard you try, you can’t find them. Later, out of blue, they are found at a place where, you’re sure you’ve looked for them earlier. You’re surprised but then you let it go thinking maybe I didn’t look for it properly! In situation like this, there might be a very bored entity Playing with you. Let it play!
2. At times, your suddenly feels a chill and a shiver runs thru your body. You don’t see a apparent reason, cause the windows are shut, door doesn’t lead to a wind source and it’s not even winter. Chances are, got in the way of an entity’s energy field. When we are at extreme of our emotions, we release maximum energy. We feel very tired after an anger outbrusrt or after crying hard for some time or after scare or panic time right? Well these all are high emotional states when we are releasing a lot of energy. That’s why people who investigate or ghosting insist you to remain calm. The energy you release is absorbed by the entity, to get stronger. And on the other hand, atmosphere…. Ghost absorb or get thier energy from the atmosphere. So when you feel chill suddenly, you probably in the space where energy is being depleted and hence the feeling of chill or cold.
3. At times you suddenly feel the atmosphere to get thick (I don’t know how else to explain this). The room you’re in, feels glommy and sad. The air feels stale, room doesn’t feel lively anymore (the difference between a sunny day room and rainyday room), and whatever you’re doing,chatting, playing,studying, watching TV etc, you lose interest in it and stop doing it. Well like I said before, atmosphere majorly gets impacted by this and we share the same space, which in turn impacts our state of mind.
4. Little kids around 3 to 9 months or so, need a lot of attention. If you don’t give it to them, they take it by crying thier throats. However, you noticed that at times, these kids do not demand attention, rather they are happily playing and staring at one particular direction, making some illegal sounds, and giving an occasional smile. Well, don’t be too intrigued, they are in all probability, taking to thier invisible friends and getting all the attention they need, from them.
5. To understand this face better, do this experiment with your friend or a family member in a quite room completely engrossed in something like reading, watching TV, studying etc, stand at a place which is close to them but they can’t see you, until they turn around completely. Now focus your gaze behind thier neck, just above the point of shirt collar would be. Keep looking, do not break your gaze. Within a few moments that person will look around, feeling uncomfortable but not understating the reason. Then they’ll quickly resume what they were doing. Again keep gazing, they again look around and spot you. Our sensory powers are a lot more than we know. When you feel that there’s some one watching you or thier it’s someone nearby you but you’re sure that there can’t be anyone, cause you’re alone in the room and door is closed from inside. It’ll be a good idea to step out of the room immediately for some time. Because you could have a visitor from a different dimension!
6. There are times when your periphery vision catches a movement but when you turn your head, there’s no one there. If this starts to happen often and that too in specific locations, chances are there might actually be someone.
7. If you’re looking at a Victorian photo and one of the subjects in photo is clearer than rest, it means they’re dead. Some people in Victorian photographs were dead at the time when the picture being captured. For example in this picture ⬇️
The picture of the girl in the middle appears clear and new. Why? Cause she was dead when the photograph was being captured. The reason for this is that cameras used were old and took a lot of time to capture a single photo, so, usually things that were still (people who were dead) were captured fresh and bright.
8. When you wake up around 2-3am without any reason, there’s an 80% chance that someone is staring at you. Example: at mid you want to use phone but scare of parents thinking whether they are seeing you or no.. For confirmation when you stare them, they start moving…and last they wake up!
1. Hiding your thumb behind all the fingers it’s a sign of nervousness ,it indicates that the person wants to remain unnoticed in the group.
2. Never tell your goals to anyone.Because it is chemically satisfies that brain and that’s similar to completing it.
3. Psychology says the frist impression is always made in the first 7 seconds.
4. It has been proven that our reaction to a situation literally had the power to change the situation itself.
5.Your brain secrests certain chemicals when you have trees or plants around which boosts the brain thinking.
6. 7 positive comments can neutalize the effect of 1 negative comment.
7. You rarely die in your dreams wherever you do it indicates that you have started something new in your life.
8. The people who experience the most shame have the least reason to be ashamed and the people who experience the least shame have the most reasons to be ashamed.
9. We do not see others as they are, we see them as we are.
10. We can even study while dreaming that is called as lucid dreaming.
There are many such theories ,one such says that we are living in someone else dream only. It’s hard to believe but I will just ask you one question and if you would neglect the theory of us living in a dream. So here it comes……“So basically we are never to remember the starting of our dream similarly do you remember beginning of your life”?🤔
Let me know what you think about the above mentioned question in my comment section. 😊
We all know what anger is, and we’ve all felt it: Anger is a completely normal, usually healthy, human emotion. But when it gets out of control and turns destructive, it can lead to problems—problems at work, in your personal relationships, and in the overall quality of your life.
WHAT IS ANGER😠?
Anger is “an emotional state that varies in intensity from mild irritation to intense fury and rage,”when you get angry, your heart rate and blood pressure go up, as do the levels of your energy hormones, adrenaline, and noradrenaline.Anger can be caused by both external and internal events. You could be angry at a specific person (such as a coworker or supervisor) or event (a traffic jam, a canceled flight), or your anger could be caused by worrying or brooding about your personal problems. Memories of traumatic or enraging events can also trigger angry feelings.
How to control our anger and how to deal with it??
People use a variety of both conscious and unconscious processes to deal with their angry feelings. The three main approaches are expressing, suppressing, and calming.
• EXPRESSING your angry feelings in an assertive—not aggressive—manner is the healthiest way to express anger. To do this, you have to learn how to make clear what your needs are, and how to get them met, without hurting others. Being assertive doesn’t mean being pushy or demanding; it means being respectful of yourself and others.
• Anger can be suppressed, and then converted or redirected. This happens when you hold in your anger, stop thinking about it, and focus on something positive. The aim is to inhibit or suppress your anger and convert it into more constructive behavior. The danger in this type of response is that if it isn’t allowed outward expression, your anger can turn inward—on yourself. Anger turned inward may cause hypertension, high blood pressure, or depression.
• Unexpressed anger can create other problems. It can lead to pathological expressions of anger, such as passive-aggressive behavior (getting back at people indirectly, without telling them why, rather than confronting them head-on).People who are constantly putting others down, criticizing everything, and making cynical comments haven’t learned how to constructively express their anger. Not surprisingly, they aren’t likely to have many successful relationships.
This means not just controlling your outward behavior, but also controlling your internal responses, taking steps to lower your heart rate, calm yourself down.
Why Are Some People More Angry Than Others?
Some people really are more “hotheaded” than others are; they get angry more easily and more intensely than the average person does. There are also those who don’t show their anger in loud spectacular ways but are chronically irritable and grumpy. Easily angered people don’t always curse and throw things; sometimes they withdraw socially and get physically ill. People who are easily angered generally have what some psychologists call a low tolerance for frustration, meaning simply that they feel that they should not have to be subjected to frustration or annoyance.
What makes these people this way?
One cause may be genetic or physiological: There is evidence that some children are born irritable, touchy, and easily angered , and that these signs are present from a very early age.Anger is often regarded as negative; we’re taught that it’s all right to express anxiety, depression, or other emotions but not to express anger. As a result, we don’t learn how to handle it.
Research has also found that family background plays a role. Typically, people who are easily angered come from families that are disruptive, chaotic, and not skilled at emotional communications.
“Some Tips for Easing Up on Yourself.”
Timing: If you and your spouse tend to fight when you discuss things at night—perhaps you’re tired, or distracted, or maybe it’s just habit—try changing the times when you talk about important matters so these talks don’t turn into arguments.
Avoidance: If your child’s chaotic room makes you furious every time you walk by it, shut the door. Don’t make yourself look at what infuriates you. Don’t say, “well, my child should clean up the room so I won’t have to be angry!” That’s not the point. The point is to keep yourself calm.
Finding alternatives: If your daily commute through traffic leaves you in a state of rage and frustration, give yourself a project—learn or map out a different route, one that’s less congested or more scenic. Or find another alternative, such as a bus or commuter train.
“TRY TO MANAGE YOUR ANGER SINCE PEOPLE CAN’T MANAGE THIER STUPIDITY”😶
For many people, the word ‘Psychology’ conjures up image of couches and bearded Psychiatrist, or men in lab coats watching rats running around mazes. To someone who has studied psychology seriously for a number of years, this general view of subject is somewhere “dishearting”.Sometimes, they treat the brain as a BLACK BOX, whose processes we have to infer from the study of a person’s behaviors.
What’s Psychology🧐(psychelogia), Simply psychology stands for psyche-breath, life, soul and logia-speech, word. “Psychologie is the knowledge of the soul”.Research in psychology seeks to understand and explain how people think, act and feel. Not surprisingly, another goal of psychology is to make predictions about how we think and act. Once we understand more about what happens and why it happens, we can use that information to make predictions about when, why and how it might happen again in future.
Predictions can also allow psychologists to make a guesses about human behavior without necessarily understating the mechanisms underlying the phenomenon.
“DO YOU THINK PSYCHOLOGY IS MYTH?”
If YES, then no wonder there are so many different misconceptions about exactly what psychology is and is not.
Here we go,…
Myth 1:Psychology is easy:-
Why do some people mistakenly believe that psychology is simple and easy? One reason might be because many tend to assume that since they have so much personal experience with human behavior, they will naturally be experts on subject. Fortunately, Just because psychology is challenging dose’nt mean that it isn’t accessible to anyone who might take an interest in it.
Myth 2:Psycholohy is just common sense
Even you think that “of course, that’s true it is just a common sense”. Then just think why psychiatrists even waste thier time in researching stuff’s that just mean only common sense? People sometimes exclaim😐.So please whoever thinks it’s a case then pick up any book outlinling some most famous experiments in history of psychology and what you will quickly realize is that much of this research refutes what was believed to be only common sense. Reseachers are able to take some of these questions and Presumptions about human behavior and test them scientifically, assessing truth or falsehood.
Myth 3: “Psychologists get paid lots of money to listen to people talk”
I’m dont have much idea about this but according to my search, psychologists are very well compensated for their work. People think they are just passively sitting back, doodling on a yellow notepad. But traditional talk therapy is only one technique that therapist might use. Throughout the sessions, therapists are actively engaged in listening to client,asking questions, providing advice and helping clients develop solutions to put into daily practice.
Salaries can vary just as dramatically. It is a work in field of mental health and focus on helping people who experience psychological distress. Some of lowest paying psychological jobs stats out in $20,000 – $ 30,000 and highest paying jobs can reach up $100,000 – $ 250,000 range. Factors such as speciality area, educational background and years of experience are what determine salary.
Myth 4: “Psychology isn’t a real science “
Another common myth about psychology is that it is not a real science. First, let’s examine exactly what science is and is not. Here we go,
• Uses empirical methods
• Researchers control
• Allows hypothesis testing
• Finding allow researches to predict future occurrences.
Psychology relies on all these methods in order to investigate human and animal behavior. However, it’s important to note that scientific psychology does have some limitations. Human behavior can vary and change over time, so what is true in one particular time and place might not necessarily apply in different situations, cultures, societies and settings.
Happiness from comparison, being better, more admired than others
Happiness from doing good for others Ultimate, perfect happiness -finding your calling.
The benefits of being happy:If happiness is a universal goal, then we need to understand it’s cause and effects. Before we go on we need to know why it’s so important to us. Why are we so hung up on being happy?
Happy people are reported to live 14%longer,increasing their lives by 7.5 to 10 years
Happy people have strong immune system and have longer lifespan, than depressed and unhappy people.
Makes you more giving. Since they are happy, they feel more contentment and tend to share their blessings with others.
Helps you to recover from trauma faster.
It’s beneficial to relationships
They have a broader and more meaningful network of friends.
But what is happiness, really? Is that feeling that rushes over you when you achieve a goal, when you have your first child, or when you love someone and they love you back? You know it when you’re happy or not, but can something so intangible really be defined and measured?
What exactly happiness is?
Every individual has thier own definition of what makes them happy. But the extensive research on happiness have shown that there are certain needs that must be satisfied in order to achieve this emotional state.
“HAPPINESS IS WHEN YOU THINK, WHAT YOU SAY AND WHAT YOU DO ARE IN HARMONY ❤”
What makes human’s happy?
Pleasure (delicious food, a warm bed, anything that pleases one of 5 sense)
The experience of any enjoyable and challenging activity.
Meaning(belonging to something bigger than ourselves)
Accomplishments (achievement of goals)
Are you happy😊?
If you were asked to rate your happiness right now, it will not be an accurate indicator of your Life satisfaction. You may be feeling discontented with your work, or having a fight with your loved one-two and you will give your state of happiness a low rating.
May be you just have a promotion or brought a new car and you’re feeling on top of the world. You’re happy. But if you were asked if you’re satisfied with your life in general, you may rate your life satisfaction differently. This shows that happiness is not equal to life satisfaction which equates to long term happiness. Hence,your overall sense of well-being cannot be determined by now happy you are today or last Friday.